Saturday, July 20, 2013

Theresa Does China: Mom's visit recap

After my visit in the States, my mom came back with me for two weeks.  We had a great time hanging out and experiencing China together!  Here are some of the highlights:  


-Ancient Culture Street - This was one of Mom's favorite things.  ACS is a great place to buy souvenirs  and it's fun because it just feels very China.  



-Street markets, traffic, and everyday quirky China - The "ordinary" things are the things I love most about China.  I'm glad my mom got to see the simplicity of China life, but also the difficulty of it.





-Tianjin Hai He River Cruise - The Hai He River is a beautiful place!  I could do the boat tour a million times and never get tired of how beautiful the city is from the river.  My mom and I got to hang out with a teacher friend of mine and enjoy a different perspective of Tianjin.  






-Chinese food is always an adventure in of itself. 







-Shepherd's Field Children's Village (www.chinaorphans.org) - The orphanage where I normally volunteer is currently closed to visitors, so we couldn't go there.  Instead, we took the train to nearby Langfang to visit the children at SFCV.  They are so sweet.  The big kids were at a VBS, but mom and I got to hang out with the babies and younger kids.  There was an older boy who we also got to play with.  What a character!!  I was glad my mom got to connect with some of the kids and see why I love my time at the orphanage so much! 








-Beijing and the Mutianyu Great Wall - We spent about a day and a half in Beijing.  We stayed in a pretty nice hostel (although I had to "lock" the door with a chair...).  We went to the Great Wall while we were there.  I am amazed every time I see the Wall!  









Shi Jia Da Yuan - We went to an old palace in Tianjin with my Chinese class.  It was a lot of fun!  The buildings are beautiful and we learned some fun facts about ancient China life.  






Monday, July 15, 2013

I can barely contain my excitement!!!

There's a site I follow that advocates for Chinese orphans.  Every week I look at those little faces and pray for their families.  I saw that some new children had been added today, and after seeing one of those faces I could barely catch my breath.

Athena

There, looking back at me, is a little girl I know well and love dearly.  I call her "Ruthie."  The woman who is advocating for her calls her "Athena."  I have been praying for this little girl for almost a year.  I fell in love with her when they moved her into the 2-year-old room at the orphanage where I volunteer.  She was my girl.  I would walk in the door and she would immediately start bouncing up and down in her bed.  She has such a sweet little personality.  She is super affectionate and happy.  This past winter she was learning to walk with a walker. (There is nothing in this world cuter than this little girl pushing around her walker!) If Chinese policies would allow 27 year olds to adopt, this little girl would be mine.

They have since moved her to a foster home, which is great for her (although I was admittedly very sad when I stopped seeing her every weekend).  I have been emailing someone from the orphanage for months now to ask about the status of her adoption paperwork, but I haven't gotten any real answers until I saw her picture today.  Praise the Lord they followed through and did her file!  She is SO ready for a family! 

Praying someone finds this sweet girl...and SOON! 

Sunday, June 9, 2013

It is He who made us, and we are His

I know I blog a lot about orphans, but they are literally always on my mind.  Chinese orphans...American orphans...African orphans... I can't help but think about them.  Today I was thinking about the reasons I feel like I can relate to the orphans I have come to love so much.

*I don't have a dad.  I'm fatherless.  Granted it's a different kind of fatherless than what they have experienced in their short lives, but it's a loss nonetheless.  When taxi drivers ask about my family, I have to tell them I don't have a dad.  "Meiyou baba." I try to tell them in my best Chinese that I used to have an amazing dad who loved me very much, but now I don't.  It's a hard reality.  As difficult as he was to lose, I'm so thankful that I have known the love of a father.  The babies I visit on Saturday mornings have never experienced that.  I pray someday they get to experience what my dad and I had.
*How many times have I looked at my own brokenness, my own imperfection, and my own weaknesses and doubted the future that the Father has for me? As I sit at the orphanage and hold orphans with special needs, I see precious lives that someone saw as broken and unwanted. But thankfully there is One who made us, who WANTS us, and who can use our brokenness for our good and His glory.

For kindergarten graduation my students memorized Psalm 100 - "Shout for joy to the Lord, all the earth. Worship the Lord with gladness; come before Him with joyful songs.  Know that the Lord is God.  It is He who made us, and we are his; we are His people, the sheep of His pasture.  Enter his gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise; give thanks to Him and praise His name. For the Lord is good and his love endures forever; his faithfulness continues through all generations. 
It's Jesus who saved me and who loves me with an everlasting love. He's the same Jesus who died for these little ones.  The same God who is a father to me is a father to the orphans I love.  What a comfort!

A new bike, a free bell, and an anime sticker

Today I bought a new bike!
I love it!  The store where we bought it was really awesome!  Check out their website - yolike.com.cn.  You custom design the bike - everything from the frame to the chain to the spokes can be mixed and matched.  I could have chosen twenty different colors for my bike if I wanted to.  (I was there for a REALLY long time and tried every possible color combination before I settled on the green, orange, black, and white.  I'm pretty sure they were ready to kick me out of the store on the grounds of indecisiveness.)

After I picked up my bike I had to go to a nearby market to have them put a kickstand on my shiny new green bike.  (They don't put kickstands on at YoLike...apparently they aren't aesthetically pleasing? I'm usually all for cuteness over practicality, but no kickstand is annoying.) I bought my old bike from the guys at the White Market, so I went there for my kickstand. They gave me a kickstand, making sure to scratch up my new paint while they worked.  BUT the good news is they gave me a tacky anime sticker to cover up the chipped paint.  That was so generous of them. They also threw in a free bell for my handlebars, but not before offering us a seat and a cold beer.  Gotta love the bike guys!



Saturday, June 8, 2013

What. A. Year.

Well..... I made it!  I'm finished with my first year of teaching in China.  As my students would say, "Phewf!" It's been a crazy year!



Sunday, April 14, 2013

Contradictions

The way children are treated in here is so fascinating to me.  I love watching children and their parents or grandparents playing together. 
They are truly treasured, and so I can't help but smile when I hear a baby girl squeal with delight when her dad throws her up in the air.  I love that they are so loved.
But then I'm always reminded of the babies at the orphanage.  Almost instantly the joy vanishes and there's a pang of sadness that creeps into my heart for the babies with no dads.  The babies whose cries aren't heard.  The babies who weren't wanted and who were abandoned on the side of the road.  How do I reconcile the two?  How can these two realities coexist?

Saturday, April 6, 2013

Beijing and Xi'an Spring Break Recap

My friend Whitney is visiting from America for Spring Break.  Here's a recap of our travels.

We left Tianjin last Sunday with the two most important things - passport and cash - and not much of an itinerary.  Within the first few hours of our trip we had traveled by taxi, subway, and bullet train. The hostel we booked turned out to be AMAZING!  (If you're ever in Beijing, definitely stay at the 365 Inn!)  We grabbed hot pot for dinner and met up with our other travel companion who was coming from Wuxi, China. 

After we ate our fill of hot pot, we ventured off to see Beijing.  We went to the Temple of Heaven and then did some bargaining at the Pearl Market.  I always enjoy people more than places, so I loved interacting with the saleswomen at the Pearl Market (although they can be a bit pushy) and the people at the Temple park.  As per usual, I fell in love with a little boy at the Pearl Market and a little old man at the park.

People, even strangers, are what make an experience worthwhile.  The cool sights and scenery are just an added bonus.

 That night we ate at a little hole-in-the-wall restaurant down an alley - lamb on a stick (yang rou chuan) and friend rice.   We befriended the shopkeepers along the way and the owners of the restaurant. People are really fascinated by the very white, blonde, clearly non-Asian speaking Mandarin and are usually happy to chat.  I've really missed talking with strangers these past nine months as I've been learning the basics of the language of these people I love, and it was so refreshing to stop and talk with someone I've never met, and someone who isn't like me. That's when I realized something.

Chinese is REALLY HARD, but the agony of learning it is so worthwhile when you can have a conversation with strangers in a language besides your own.  What an AMAZING experience! Never stop learning new things!

Day 2 was the day we had set aside to go to the Great Wall.  I had heard about this section of the Wall where you can take a ski lift up to the top and then toboggan sled down to the bottom.  Um...yes, please.  We consulted with the the people at the hostel and got a vague idea of where we were going.  We woke up early and headed out, praying we would at some point reach our destination.  We got to the bus station without much of a problem, just missing the first bus.  Once we got there we were a little nervous by the fact that there were NO other foreigners there.  Uhhhhhhh.......where are all of the other tourists? This lady followed us around offering to take us to the Wall (nope...no way, lady) while we tried to figure out which bus and stop we wanted. No one in line spoke English.  No one.  I tried to communicate in Chinese where we were trying to go, and a few guys in line assured us that we were in the right line, but it's still kind of scary getting on a bus and not being totally sure where you're going or where you're supposed to stop.  We eventually got dropped off at the right stop, grabbed a taxi, and made our way to the Wall.  OH MY WORD.  The scenery was gorgeous.  Mountains everywhere, a clear sky, and no sounds of the city.  


Once we got to the bottom of the mountain (by toboggan sled), we bought a few souvenirs with our mad bargaining skills and then decided it was time to head back to the city.  We knew it would be hard to find a legitimate taxi in the middle of nowhere, so we decided we would hire an unmetered taxi to take us back to the bus station.  They quoted us a price that was way too much, and out of nowhere Chinese words I didn't even know I knew started coming out of my mouth.  The next thing we knew we had a pretty cheap taxi fare arranged.  I shook hands with the taxi driver and said something to the effect of, "We're friends, right?" to make sure he wasn't going to abduct us.  He turned out to be a really nice guy, and we talked about his family and Starbucks most of the way back to the bus stop.  

That night we made our way across town and found a REALLY good Mexican restaurant and a Starbucks.  Win-win.  Another night at our awesome hostel.  It was a REALLY good day!  

Day 3 was probably my favorite day in Beijing.  We went to Summer Palace.  Talk about natural and man-made beauty all mixed together.  The park goes on forever (we only saw a fraction of it), and every part is breathtaking. I wouldn't say I learned anything life-altering on day 3, but it was certainly a great day to sit by the water looking at a beautiful palace and reflecting on how thankful I am for this life I get to live.






Day 4 we headed off to Xi'an, which is known for the Terra-cotta Warriors.  We opted for the overnight train, which was actually a pretty fun experience.  We got to the train station after a VERY long night and were overwhelmed with people offering us tours and taxis, all of which were going to cost us a lot of money and who knows what else.  So we walked down the street a little and, unable to find a taxi, finally resorted to cramming three people and all of our luggage into the back of a tiny rickshaw.  Thankfully we were enclosed in the tiny box on the back of his bike, because he was squeezing between cars and buses and driving like a crazy person. 
Our room on the overnight train
We had scheduled a tour for our first day in Xi'an with a guy people from my school use a lot.  He was really wonderful.  He took us to a daoist temple and explained a little bit of the beliefs of daoism, which is the original Chinese religion and still largely practiced in China.  He also took us to see a place where people are living in caves, which was really interesting and extremely humbling.  Next was the Terra-cotta Warriors.  The park where the warriors are located was really beautiful.  Archaeologists are still working to piece together the warriors which were discovered in the 1970s.  They move them to another location in the museum, put the pieces together, and then move them back to their original place.  If a piece cannot be found, they just leave the soldier incomplete.  The soldiers were created to protect the first emperor of China in the afterlife.  During the tour, I kept thinking of 2 Corinthians 4:7 - "We now have this light shining in our hearts, but we ourselves are like fragile clay jars containing this great treasure. This makes it clear that our great power is from God, not from ourselves." (NLT)  "But we have this treasure in jars of clay, to show that the surpassing power belongs to God and not to us." (ESV)

I'm living in a society of broken people with no hope outside of burning money for their dead ancestors and building statues to protect themselves after they are dead, and that goes back thousands of years. Praise God for His Spirit and presence in this place that can offer real Hope.

After the Terra-cotta Warrior tour we went to the Wild Goose Pagoda for the light and fountain show.  It was really an overwhelming experience.  There were SO MANY people there.  I didn't expect it to be so crowded, considering they do it every night.  But, as with everything in China, the park was packed and we had to fight for a spot where we could actually see what was going on.  It was really beautiful, though, and I didn't even mind being squished in between thousands of my closest Chinese friends. 
The next day in Xi'an was pretty relaxed.  It was a rainy day, so we spent a majority of the day in the hostel drinking coffee and relaxing.  Before the rain came, though, we had a little time to see the Xi'an city wall and the Muslim food street. 





Possibly my favorite part of the whole trip (aside from the beauty of Summer Palace) was what happened after the rain started.  We were trying to get a taxi, as were the other million people out on the street.  A man came up and offered me a ride on the back of his motorcycle.  I told him that there were two people with me and we wouldn't all fit.  He rode by again and offered again, and again I told him that we needed to take three people.  A few minutes later he came back with his friend and he told us we could put two people on his friend's motorcycle, so off we rode in the rain.  It was freezing but it was SO much fun!  We rode on the right side of the street, and then on the wrong side of the street.  We squeezed between cars and rode on sidewalks.  We eventually made it back to our hostel, soaking wet but so thankful for such a fun day.
Rain doesn't have to ruin anything...  Unplanned adventures are often the most memorable.